Blooming Beyond Degrees

We live in a world that equates busyness with worth. The more you do, the more valuable you are, right? Wrong. This relentless pursuit of productivity often leads to burnout, resentment, and a complete disregard for our own well-being. It's time to break free from this toxic mindset and embrace the power of saying no. Imagine this: You're drowning in a sea of to-dos, your calendar is bursting at the seams, and you're starting to resemble a caffeinated squirrel. Every new request feels like a tiny, insistent voice pleading for your attention. But what if you paused, took a deep breath, and simply said, "No, thank you"? It might feel uncomfortable at first, like you're committing a social faux pas. But trust me, the freedom and peace that follow are worth it. Let's be honest, not every opportunity is a golden ticket. Some requests are disguised as favors but are really just someone else’s problem in a shiny wrapper. By learning to dis...

  Hey there! It's been a month, and I'm back with a thought-provoking topic: the art of loneliness. This isn't your typical blues. It's about a peculiar kind of loneliness that lingers even when you're surrounded by people. You connect with them, yet a hollowness persists. You have conversations, but there's a nagging feeling that something is missing. The Paradox of Connection This generation, we're wired for connection. We text, chat, and share our lives online. Yet, a strange paradox exists. We can be surrounded by people, but feel utterly alone. Silence hangs heavy, conversations feel awkward, and a pit forms in your stomach. Is this a generational thing? Are we programmed to crave connection but struggle to find meaningful ones? We yearn to share our deepest thoughts with countless people, but when it comes to loneliness, a strange silence falls. The Craving Within This loneliness whispers about dissatisfaction. We chase after something undefined, a vo...

Ah, weekends! As someone who works from home, the minute that Friday clock strikes five, it's like a switch flips. The work computer gets shut down, and it's time for pure relaxation. Forget social media – these days, it just adds to the noise. My ideal weekend starts with the perfect movie marathon setup: my favorite movie or the latest series I've been wanting to watch, a delicious dessert in hand (simple cookies are my current go-to!), and a completely clear schedule. No pressure to finish the entire series in one sitting, just pure enjoyment. Unlike my usual weeknight routine, where sleep is precious, weekends are for late nights. I might stay up a little later than usual, savoring the movie or series with no alarms looming⏰. The next morning? It's all about a luxurious breakfast in bed. A big, satisfying meal to fuel a day of pure relaxation. Music is a constant companion on my weekend recharge days. Whether it's creating a relaxing playlist or just letting ...

Hey there, beautiful people! 👻 Just two short months ago( 58 days, 15 hours, 30 minutes to be precise ), I was drowning in a sea of . Stuck at home with no job and a social life that resembled a tumble weed rolling across a deserted highway ️. Studying for a future that felt more like a prison sentence ⛓️ than a dream ✨. It was like being a deflated balloon – empty and purposeless. But then, something magical happened! ✨ A tiny spark of motivation ignited , and I decided to fight back . I started small, with a gratitude journal to remind myself of the good things (even the little ones!), like that perfect cup of coffee ☕ in the morning or the heartwarming sunrise . I grabbed my dusty writing journal and poured my heart out on the pages, letting the words flow freely like a babbling brook ️. **Next, it was time to take care of this neglected body of mine! ** Out came the yoga mat (folded in a corner for who knows how long!), and I started stretching and moving ‍♀️. Healthy me...

  Hey everyone!✍😊 For a whole month, I was stuck in a bit of a rut. Work was work, but there wasn't much that sparked real joy outside of it. I kept asking myself, "What's next? What can I do to feel more fulfilled?" Then it hit me – hobbies! We all know they're good for us, but sometimes we forget just how much they can transform our lives. Think hobbies are just about collecting stamps or coins (been there, done that!)? Not a chance! There's a whole world of activities waiting to be explored, and the benefits are amazing. Feeling stressed? Yoga, a brisk walk, or even belting out your favorite tunes in the shower can work wonders. Need a creativity boost? Unleash your inner artist with painting, writing, or crafting something cute. Want to learn something new? Dive into a book, listen to a podcast, or pick up a new language – the possibilities are endless! And guess what? Hobbies can also connect you with awesome people who share your passions. Whether you s...

  The clock strikes 8 AM, yet the achievement I clutched so tightly, my engineering degrees, feel cold and distant. A hollowness echoes in my chest, a stark contrast to the vibrant world beckoning outside. Like many at 24, I stand at a crossroads. Independence, a dream shimmering just beyond reach, clashes with the unspoken pressure to "settle down." My soul craves adventure, whispers of exotic lands dance in my head, yet fear and confusion hold me tethered. It's a familiar story, isn't it? We chase degrees, tick societal boxes, but somewhere along the way, the path feels pre-written, not ours to own. I, too, am no stranger to this dissonance. A civil engineer by qualification, I embarked on a PhD, propelled by an undeniable curiosity, yet unsure of where it ultimately leads. Why? The answer itself dances just beyond my grasp. This path, though intellectually stimulating, feels disconnected from the deeper yearnings for freedom and exploration that simmer withi...